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I am a happily married swinger in suburban Minneapolis. My husband and I have been married for 20+ years and exploring various aspects of consensual non-monogamy since the beginning. Sabrina Swings is the place where I share our experiences. The blog is part true erotic swinging stories, but mostly philosophical discussions of some of the lifestyle's most common questions. How do I get into swinging? How do I talk my spouse into swinging? How do I know if I should swing? Do swingers get jealous? How often do swingers have sex? Where can I find a swinging playmate? Hope you enjoy!

Threesome Experiences in Swinging

 Posted by on 9 January 2012
Jan 092012
 

Swinging generally conjures up the idea of two straight couples swapping partners for sex.  If you watch a lot of Dateline NBC or 48 hours, you might have the image of suburban homes where swingers secretly meet to have flexible sex-couplings with other swingers.  My husband and I have experienced both these scenarios, as well as clubs and parties.  One thing that is probably more common in the swinging world than most people might realize is the threesome.  There are a variety of reasons that this type of experience works well for couples.  It gives some the opportunity to experiment with bi-sexual play.  It might be a way to bring a long held sexual fantasy into reality.  Sometimes it just works well because its hard to find the 4-way connection desired for a full-swap.

My husband and I had our first 3-some about 18 years ago, when we had been married less than two years.  We played a couple times with his ex-girlfriend and a couple times with a guy from his work.  It was very fun to experiment with my husband sexually in that way.  It was so much fun to share such a naughty secret with him.  During the last three years, as my husband and I have become more active in our local Lifestyle scene, we’ve had a few more opportunities to enjoy this type of playtime.  My husband has become a huge fan of watching me play with other men and joining the fun.  I’m certainly not one to complain about the chance to be the center of attention, but finding the right partner(s) can be challenging.

We’ve been posting some ads on Craigslist trying to find a good fit, but haven’t had a lot of luck.  This guy turned out to be a lot of fun, until he moved away.  Since then, I haven’t been able to find an ad or response that intrigued me enough to get out there.  Swinging for us is about more than just fucking.  Sure, the physical act of sex is fun and feels really good, but there has to be some chemistry there as well.

On Saturday, I got a text from an old friend who lives nearby.  We had met him and his wife a couple years ago and hung out with them a couple times.  He had the house to himself and was wondering if I’d like to come hang out in the hot tub for a while.  When I told him that I wanted to bring my hubby along,  he agreed and we planned to meet around 9:30pm.  We met at his house where he had a glass of red wine ready for me, and after a few pleasantries, the three of us took off our clothes and climbed in the hot tub.  I was a little nervous because we hadn’t played together in a while, but eventually I was able to relax and the three of us had a VERY nice time.

Details forthcoming…

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    We enjoyed reading your story about starting off talking about bringing in a single guy. Our 1st talk was the classic about a bisexual female which we are happy to say we have now experienced many, many times! We have partied at Memphis Swingers clubs and had a great time. We have also been to a few private swingers parties in the Memphis area and 1 in Nashville. We love TN! Kisses sexies, Have Fun!

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