So out of the blue, my husband says to me that I can do a sleepover with MrBadBoy whenever I want. It caught me a little off guard because we weren’t even talking about sleepovers. I couldn’t figure what prompted him to suddenly make this declaration. Had I said something that made my hubby think I wanted to do a sleepover?
When I was at his place on Tuesday night, MrBadBoy had mentioned that one of his girlfriends spends the night sometimes. He wasn’t asking me to spend the night or implying that he might ever want me to, unless the comment was his way of opening the conversation? I’ve never done an overnight with one of my playmates. In the beginning, hubby wasn’t comfortable with the idea of a sleepover. Not sure if that was generally, or if it had more to do with the guy who was asking. Apparently things have changed.
When I asked hubby what suddenly prompted this change of heart, he reminded me that he has done sleepovers with two of his playmates, and a third has asked for permission to have him sleep over. Then I remembered that one of the girls got up in the morning and made him a hot breakfast before he left for work (5:30am) —- ugh! I definitely don’t want to do sleepovers if it means that I have to make breakfast in the morning. LOL Having kids makes doing a sleepover a little difficult as well, since I’d either need to leave early enough to get home before the kids wake up or come up with an excuse for why I’m not home.
I guess I need to do some more thinking on this topic. I’m not sure I really want to do a sleepover. What’s the point anyway? Is it about intimacy? Cuddling? Morning sex availability? I think I would rather have a group party sleepover where we all party late into the night and then wake up to a flirtatious breakfast with mimosas and bloody marys.
I’m curious. Do you do sleepover playdates? Why or why not? What do you like about them? Should I give it a try? Post a comment or send me an email at sabrinaswings-AT-gmail.com
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