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I am a happily married swinger in suburban Minneapolis. My husband and I have been married for 20+ years and exploring various aspects of consensual non-monogamy since the beginning. Sabrina Swings is the place where I share our experiences. The blog is part true erotic swinging stories, but mostly philosophical discussions of some of the lifestyle's most common questions. How do I get into swinging? How do I talk my spouse into swinging? How do I know if I should swing? Do swingers get jealous? How often do swingers have sex? Where can I find a swinging playmate? Hope you enjoy!

Saturday Night at Home….

 Posted by on 31 July 2010
Jul 312010

So it’s Saturday night and instead of going out, we are home with our kids and getting ready for bed at 9:00 pm.  This is the life of a suburban swinger.  We actually do find ourselves at home like normal people every so often.   I attempted to get us invited to a couple house parties, but my husband nixed them since they are both about an hour drive from our house.  I understand his point, but really would like to meet some fun people who we both enjoy hanging out with.  It seems like we date separately almost exclusively now, and we used to have so much fun with couples and at parties.   I really hate being at home sometimes.

I have taken a shower and am going to climb in bed to play with my Hitachi Magic Wand.  It has been ages since I’ve given myself a really good orgasm with the king of all vibrators and I could really use some intense buzzing on my clit right now.

  3 Responses to “Saturday Night at Home….”

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    Just purchased my very own Hitachi Magic Wand! And yes, is pure MAGIC!!


    Hello sexyincypress! Glad to know you are enjoying the Hitachi! I remember when I first got mine, I thought I would never want to leave the house again! LOL


    Isn’t hubby home?Why are you going to use your hitachi magic wand,when hubby is right there?He doesn’t want fuck you?To me,sex toys are for complementary after a guy have fucked his gf,wife,partner and made her cum twice or three times and he is spent,and the lady still aroused,and to get an extra orgasm then she grabs the toy to satisfy herself with another orgasms.And or if he is absent at that especific moment.I don’t know if I am wrong.
    I personally have helped woman with sex toys use after we had sex,and if she wanted more.I have high sex drive,and honestly I never had sex that last less than an hour.I love having all the time to stimulate woman in all way possible making sure she is very horny at the point she can’t take it any more,then she ask for me to penetrate.My foreplay takes at least 45 to 50 min,so that’s the reason which includes eating her out,soft 20-25 min oil massage,fingering etc.when it comes to sex that’s where I take more time,making sure we are in the same rhythm,with slow strokes in the beginning increasing accordingly her moanings to reach climax together.I can make her cum 3 to 4 times before I explode my orgasm.That’ always my goal.I may go rough if she asks for.That’s when my partners use their toys for extra orgasms.I hope I didn’t offend you Mrs.just confused with the situation of him present and you grabbing your wand.
    I love your blog,is very interesting to read about your and hubby life in the swinger lifestyle.

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