Welcome to SabrinaSwings!

I am a happily married swinger in suburban Minneapolis. My husband and I have been married for 20+ years and exploring various aspects of consensual non-monogamy since the beginning. Sabrina Swings is the place where I share our experiences. The blog is part true erotic swinging stories, but mostly philosophical discussions of some of the lifestyle's most common questions. How do I get into swinging? How do I talk my spouse into swinging? How do I know if I should swing? Do swingers get jealous? How often do swingers have sex? Where can I find a swinging playmate? Hope you enjoy!

Sabrina’s Timeline


1973 – Born in St. Paul, Minnesota

1980 – The first time I remember holding a boy’s hand. I liked how rough it felt.

1984 – My first kiss.  My friend told me I should close my eyes.

1986 – The first time a guy touched me down there.  Very intense.

1989 – My first blow job.  In a car.

1991 – The first time I had sex.

1991 – My husband was the first man to go down on me.  WOW!  Thank you, baby!

1992 – Our first threesome.

1993 – Our first swinger party – we didn’t play – great story though!

1996 – We met a couple online and did some soft swap and same room sex.

1999 – I began webcamming on ifriends.net

2008 – We returned to the world of swinging after a very long hiatus.

2009 – Started blogging about our lifestyle

2012 – Swinging in the Suburbs now has it’s own domain at SabrinaSwings.com