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Random Hook Up Phone Sex

 Posted by on 30 December 2009
Dec 302009
 

So I was on this Craigslist kick a while ago trying to meet some couples for hubby and I to play with and trying to find some men for me to have solo dates with or for threesomes with my hubby.  It really was not too successful at all.  Craigslist is just so different from any of the swinger sites.  You have to do so much work to get to know folks on CL, emails back and forth, cajoling them to send pics, etc.  On a swinger site, you can browse ads all day long and the profiles can be pretty detailed which means you can get a good feel for someone’s personality BEFORE you invest a bunch of time emailing or talking with them.

Craigslist is good, however, for the random hook up type thing.  One guy on there happened to catch me on a good day a while back.  This was before I got my new job, so I was home a lot during the day.  So on this particular day, the CLPhoneSex guy suggests that we have some phone sex.  I was horny, so I figured, “why not”.  I got naked, plugged in my Hitachi Magic Wand, blocked my number and gave him a call.

He was really great at phone sex!  I masturbated while he aurally aroused me with his naughty, naughty stories.  He got me VERY turned on talking about sucking other guys’ cocks and all sorts of other nasty stuff.  It was really fucking HOT!  I had a few really great orgasms with him.  When the phone call was over, he said that he couldn’t wait to meet me.   Myself, on the other hand, was feeling pretty satisfied with how things went and felt no desire whatsoever to take things to the next level.

Basically it was a one time thing as far as I was concerned.  He has since sent me a couple emails and some yahoo messages wondering when we might talk again and I’ve basically just ignored him.  I can’t decide if that makes me rude or not?  I basically just used the guy for my own orgasmic needs with no real desire to actually meet him.  Is that wrong?  Am I just someone else’s Mr TallBaldnHandsome??

  4 Responses to “Random Hook Up Phone Sex”

Comments (4)
  1.  

    Very hot indeed. And can I volunteer for M-F-M too?

  2.  

    {shrug} I don’t think you did anything much different than many guys do. If I was in his shoes, I’d be a little disappointed, no doubt, but on the other hand, he got lucky and got off too, presumably.

    I hope you don’t make a habit of it, that would get into the rude realm. Hopefully, you can find someone(s) for good booty calls when you want them, be they phone, IM, or physical. Then you don’t have to worry about being rude to strangers. 🙂

  3.  

    Well they’re only strangers the first time I’m rude to them. 😉

  4.  

    Hey

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