Welcome to SabrinaSwings!

I am a happily married swinger in suburban Minneapolis. My husband and I have been married for 20+ years and exploring various aspects of consensual non-monogamy since the beginning. Sabrina Swings is the place where I share our experiences. The blog is part true erotic swinging stories, but mostly philosophical discussions of some of the lifestyle's most common questions. How do I get into swinging? How do I talk my spouse into swinging? How do I know if I should swing? Do swingers get jealous? How often do swingers have sex? Where can I find a swinging playmate? Hope you enjoy!

Feb 062014

Hello readers!!

Today I’m sharing a site with you that I recently became aware of through an email from their marketing folks.  I’ve spent the last couple weeks looking around XXX Sex Guides, and this post is going to share some of my favorite finds there.

#1)  The Five Commandments of Casual Sex is a fun post with 5 helpful suggestions for keeping your casual sex partnerships casual, hot, and healthy.  I especially love the new acronym coined in this post:  CFF, or Casual Fucking Friend. It’s a bit like FWB (friend with benefits), but maybe in a CFF, the benefits come before the friendship.  I personally enjoy casual encounters in addition to the longer term friendships we’ve created in the lifestyle. Read about some of my CFF encounters here: New Friend,  Hubby Watches, and Parking Lot Sex.

#2) Raunchiest Sex Blogs of 2014.  I’m always curious about other bloggers and what they do to keep themselves and their readers interested in coming back for more.  I love connecting with my own readers through comments, emails, and Twitter.  What I rarely have much time to do is read other bloggers.  That’s why I decided to bookmark XXXSexGuide’s list.  Perhaps you’ll find something there to pique your interest as well?  Be sure to subscribe to your favorites and let me know if you find a gem.  P.S. You can also subscribe to my blog and receive email updates of my post by entering your email address in the upper right corner of this page.

#3) Online Dating Site Reviews.  Okay, so this one is a little different.  This is the page where XXX Sex Guides reviews about ten online adult “dating” sites.  I don’t have personal experience with any of the sites, and honestly doubt any of my swinger friends do either.  The sites listed here appear to be geared more toward single men looking for casual hook-ups.  I know that my site attracts single men in addition to women and couples, so perhaps some of the sites listed here might be appropriate for them.  Not every single guy wants to or should be part of the swinging lifestyle.  The sites I personally recommend for swinging couples are listed on my Links Page.   Actually, one site listed is Ashley Madison, a site well-known as the place for married people to have an affair.  This is definitely outside the realm of what I consider swinging (honest, open sexuality with all partners aware), but I know a female friend who has an Ashley Madison profile and enjoys the playmates she finds there.  I’ll leave you to make your own decisions about whether that type of thing works for you.

Calling comments:  #1) Share your own tips for keeping your CFF relationships mutually beneficial.  #2) Which blogs other than mine do you enjoy reading?   Better yet, share a specific post with me here or on Twitter @SabrinaSwings.  #3) What are your favorite sites for finding play partners?

This post was sponsored by XXX Sex Guides.  Sabrina Swings has provided her own personal, honest opinion based on personal review of the site as requested by the site’s marketing department. 


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