Welcome to SabrinaSwings!

I am a happily married swinger in suburban Minneapolis. My husband and I have been married for 20+ years and exploring various aspects of consensual non-monogamy since the beginning. Sabrina Swings is the place where I share our experiences. The blog is part true erotic swinging stories, but mostly philosophical discussions of some of the lifestyle's most common questions. How do I get into swinging? How do I talk my spouse into swinging? How do I know if I should swing? Do swingers get jealous? How often do swingers have sex? Where can I find a swinging playmate? Hope you enjoy!

Nov 072009
 

Parking Lot Sex in CarsI had fun with a new guy on Thursday night. We occasionally meet a group of swingers at a little dive-y neighborhood bar for karaoke. A really good friend of ours started what has become a weekly event for swingers in the Twin Cities. The event started sometime over the summer and at first, attendance would vary quite a bit. Some weeks there might be 30 people and other weeks only like 8 of us showed up. Lately, however, it seems pretty steady and there is a good crowd nearly every week. I would say we are part of the “regular crowd” and then there are some that show up occasionally (we may be more in this group at this juncture.) And finally, there is the group I’ll call “fresh meat.” These are the sexy new folks who everyone seems to want to meet.

Many weeks ago, a guy showed up who just had several of us ladies (myself included) feeling very frisky. He has dark, captivating eyes, thick curly black hair, and a voice that makes me cream my panties. WOW! He got a LOT of attention the last time he showed up. Girls who practically falling all over themselves to kiss him and dance with him and just generally enjoy his sexiness in any way possible. He and I had one of those connections that I crave in the lifestyle. It was very clear that we each had some intense appreciation for the other’s sexiness. So the last time (aka first time) he came to karaoke, I asked him to come outside with me near the end of the night. I’m not big on public displays of sensuality at these events. We walked out to my car and started kissing and making out. Hubby knew I was going outside with MrSexy, but didn’t realize we were going to OUR car, so he was coming out to pull the car up for me so we could go home. He apologized for interrupting and we all had a little laugh. MrSexy and I gave each other a kiss good night and I got in my car. Just when I closed the door, MrSexy knocked on the window and thanked hubby for allowing me a few moments of kissy face time.

I really wanted to hook up with this guy again, but he explained that his play schedule is a little unpredictable and we would just have to wait and see when we might meet up again.

Fast forward to this past Thursday. I went to karaoke by myself because I was already out and about Thursday night and about half the distance to the suburb where our event takes place. This actually wasn’t a horrible idea especially since hubby and I generally have different ideas about when we should leave karaoke. He likes to leave early and I like to stay late.

So anyway, there I am minding my own business at karaoke when surprise, surprise, in walks MrSexy. He gave me a sly smile and I returned the favor. We shared a very nice hello kiss and I was instantly so turned on by him again. I’m kind of a picky gal and demand a pretty intense attraction before I’ll sleep with a guy. This guy absolutely fits the bill. Just like last time however, he was fawned on by nearly all the female attendees and he really eats it up (who can blame him.) I don’t like to be clingy or annoying, so I kind of stayed back a bit. Later into the evening, we found ourselves sitting next to each other, hands on thighs, doing a little kissing, and (at least me) getting very turned on! He had sung once earlier in the night and I asked him if he would be singing again. He answered yes and I quietly said, “Do you want to take me outside for a bit when you’re done?” I actually said it so quietly that I thought he might not hear.” But he immediately turned to me and said, “Yes.” Just like that, a nice short one word answer that couldn’t be mistaken for any other answer.

So right after he sang, the two of us started walking outside. One gal did follow us and ask him for a hug good-bye, but after that short delay, we walked out to his car.  Just like last time, we began with my back against the side of the car and him kissing me. Sexy, passionate, exciting kisses and some shared, over the pants crotch fondling. This time, however, we weren’t interrupted and he asked if I wanted to get inside the car with him. Of course I did and even though I wasn’t necessarily planning to have sex, of course we did. It started with some kissing and removing of pants so that we could fondle without fabric barriers and do some intense below the waist tongue teasing and tasting. He had the condom and took it out asking if I wanted to fuck him. (Isn’t the answer obvious?) He sat in the backseat and put the condom on. I straddled him and slowly lowered my waiting pussy onto his nice hard cock. We fucked and it felt so damn good! I was mostly naked by this time, my bra pulled down around my waist. One of my favorite parts was when MrSexy said something like “mmmm…..look how sexy your body looks when you fuck.” Something about a man complimenting my body and really meaning it is a huge turn on.

Generally, I’m not a huge fan of fucking in cars and it was sort of funny when I found it impossible to throw my head back to have my neck kissed because my head was already touching the car’s ceiling. Despite this, I really enjoyed myself. Being a swinger is very fun when you are fucking sexy people to whom you are highly attracted. In the future, this blog may contain other stories in which I’m fucking people that don’t turn out to be as fun as I had hoped. But right now I am so satisfied with my Thursday night experience. It was really hot. MrSexy and I said good night to each other, but we didn’t exchange phone numbers or any other contact information, so it’s just a matter of chance as to when I might see him again.

A final thought……I am also so happy that my husband is open and able to allow me these kinds of experiences. As you continue with this blog, you will learn more about our different approaches to swinging and sex, but he is a wonderful man and having him makes experiences like the car sex with MrSexy so much better!

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