Welcome to SabrinaSwings!

I am a happily married swinger in suburban Minneapolis. My husband and I have been married for 20+ years and exploring various aspects of consensual non-monogamy since the beginning. Sabrina Swings is the place where I share our experiences. The blog is part true erotic swinging stories, but mostly philosophical discussions of some of the lifestyle's most common questions. How do I get into swinging? How do I talk my spouse into swinging? How do I know if I should swing? Do swingers get jealous? How often do swingers have sex? Where can I find a swinging playmate? Hope you enjoy!

e [lust] #46

My article: The Role of Feelings in the Swinging Lifestyle is included the most recent edition of e[lust]. Happy reading! If you visit any of these other wonderful writers, make sure you let them know how you found them! XOXO! Welcome to e[lust] – The only place where the smartest [Read More….]

Swinging Style Breakdown

There are so many different preferences when it comes to swinging.  In fact, some don’t even use the term swinging, preferring more current terms like “consensual non-monogamy” or simply the “Lifestyle”. Whatever you call it, there is no one right way to play when you choose non-monogamy.  Each couple (or [Read More….]

Benefits of Swinging – Blog Series

My husband and I have been married for more than 20 years.  We had our first threesomes (both MFM and FMF) shortly after we were married. Since then, we’ve had a variety of experiences that have shaped our relationship and our self-discovery.  I’ve decided to make The Benefits of Swinging [Read More….]