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Please Don’t Pencil Me In

 Posted by on 18 May 2013
May 182013

I  don’t want to be penciled in. The last two dates I’ve set up, the guys told me to “pencil” it in.

I understand the need to be flexible, and I fully expect flexibility from my partners, but if and when we decide to set up a date, I’d like it to be a strong priority for both of us. I’ll never be annoyed or upset if you have to cancel for some unforeseen reason. But I sorta kinda hate having our date “penciled” in. It feels like you’re leaving yourself an “out” in case a better offer comes along.

I’m sure I’m just being really annoying and expecting way too much from these people we call swingers, but seriously, let’s not “pencil-it-in”.

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