Welcome to SabrinaSwings!

I am a happily married swinger in suburban Minneapolis. My husband and I have been married for 20+ years and exploring various aspects of consensual non-monogamy since the beginning. Swinging in the Suburbs is the real life blog where I share our experiences. The blog is part true erotic swinging stories, but mostly philosophical discussions of some of the lifestyle's most common questions. How do I get into swinging? How do I talk my spouse into swinging? How do I know if I should swing? Do swingers get jealous? How often do swingers have sex? Where can I find a swinging playmate? Hope you enjoy!

Playtime Details with a New Single Guy

 Posted by on 31 January 2012
Jan 312012
 

It has been a little while since I’ve posted a sexy play-by-play for my readers.   I had promised details about our hot-tub threesome in this post, but never got around to it.  Suffice it to say that I had to beg for mercy and the entire next day was spent in bed recovering! Back in the Swinging Saddle was a pretty hot story about meeting up again with one of my favorite playmates.  And [Read More....]

Playtime Details with a New Single Guy
Jan 282012
 

Welcome!! You’ve found the brand new home for my blog: Swinging in the Suburbs.  I am currently in the process of deciding on a look for the site, updating links, and making sure everything is working properly.  All my previous content is now available here, so poke around a bit and let me know what you like. You can also find me on Twitter @SabrinaSwings Swinging in the Suburbs previously lived at this site:  http://suburbanswingers.freeswingersblog.com. [Read More....]

Swinging in the Suburbs --- Now at SabrinaSwings.com

Swinging FAQ: How Often Should We Play?

 Posted by on 25 January 2012
Jan 252012
 

I’ve been enjoying Life on the Swingset for the last several months.  The site’s very clever tagline reads “Life Less Monotonous.  Life Less Monogamous.”   I really wish I would have thought of that!  The site is run by Cooper Becket who is also a contributor over at SexisFun.net. Both sites inspire me to expand my vision for this blog! I’ve been devouring their blogs and articles, with plans to listen to the pod-casts as soon [Read More....]

Can Swingers Be Happily Married? Long Term?

 Posted by on 24 January 2012
Jan 242012
 

Lately, we’ve been hearing a lot about lifestyle break-ups and divorces.  It seems that some of the couples we used to know aren’t faring so well.  We’ve been out of the loop for a bit and haven’t been privy to rumors and drama.  We find ourselves browsing profiles and realizing that the couple we used to know are now playing separately as singles.  It makes us sad.  I hate the implication that swinging may have [Read More....]

Can Swingers Be Happily Married?  Long Term?

New Blog Feature – e[lust]

 Posted by on 16 January 2012
Jan 162012
 

Hello all! I am very excited to include the most recent edition of e[lust] in the post below! It’s my first time publishing with them. I sent this post to be published in the Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships section. Happy reading!

e[lust] #32

 Posted by on 16 January 2012
Jan 162012
 

Photo courtesy of Lady Grinning Soul Welcome to e[lust], the sex blog round-up- The best posts from the hottest and smartest sex bloggers all in one place! This edition highlights topics such as libido, fake orgasms, teenage lust, voyeurism, BDSM consent and so much more. Want to be included in e[lust] #33? Start with the rules, come back in February to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! ~ The Top Three [Read More....]

e[lust] #32

Threesome Experiences in Swinging

 Posted by on 9 January 2012
Jan 092012
 

Swinging generally conjures up the idea of two straight couples swapping partners for sex.  If you watch a lot of Dateline NBC or 48 hours, you might have the image of suburban homes where swingers secretly meet to have flexible sex-couplings with other swingers.  My husband and I have experienced both these scenarios, as well as clubs and parties.  One thing that is probably more common in the swinging world than most people might realize [Read More....]

Jan 082012
 

There is a lot of bi-sexual female energy in the Lifestyle.  It seems there is some type of girl-on-girl action to be found at pretty much any Lifestyle get-together.  The majority of couples’ profiles online list the wife as bi-sexual.  Some add further clarification, identifying themselves as bi-curious, others might prefer to call themselves bi-comfortable. I’ve even heard bi-selfish and bi-situational??  On swinger sites like Lifestyle Lounge and Kasidie.com, you can find discussion forums filled [Read More....]

Female Sexuality in the Lifestyle -- Are there any straight females?
Jan 042012
 

Sometimes I forget to update my blog when we go out and “nothing” happens.  It might surprise some people to know that swingers don’t have sex every time they go out to a club or an event.  The last two times we’ve gone out, there was no sex involved whatsoever. Last Friday night, we headed out to a pre-NYE part about an hour away from our house.  We hadn’t booked a room, so the plan [Read More....]

Is it still swinging if you don't have sex?
Jan 022012
 

Want to improve the quality of your lifestyle interactions this year?  Maybe it’s time to make some new year’s resolutions focusing on your sex life.  Here are a few to consider. Get Philosophical About Sex Take some time this year to figure out why you want to be a swinger.  What is it about this lifestyle that makes it the best way to express your own unique sexuality.  If someone were to ask you why [Read More....]

New Year's Resolutions for Lifestyle Couples and Swingers