I think I may have forgotten how to flirt. I tend to ignore inviting texts from friends who want to engage in a little flirtation. I’m just bored and can’t quite figure out how to enjoy this kind of exchange lately. I used to enjoy naughty thoughts at work about certain men. Lately, I just interact with them and not a single naughty thought crosses my mind at all. How do I get back my [Read More....]
While swinging is sometimes spontaneous, it’s often really nice to show up to a playdate or party well prepared. Following is a list of items I like to keep in our sex-bag. I have a leather backpack that I keep packed at all times so I can grab it at a moment’s notice. Take a look at my suggestions and let me know your thoughts and ideas in the comments. 1. Condoms : Whether you [Read More....]
What is it about bondage and domination that makes sex so incredibly hot sometimes? Is it because pain and fear incite a rush of adreneline and that rush causes a shift in the pleasure centers of the brain? I’m not a neurologist, so I can’t explain why pain and pleasure seem to be so intimately entwined. I can, however, give you a little taste of one experience I had with a very naughty playmate who [Read More....]
I have been giving a ton of thought to this blog and where it’s going. My husband and I went out for an appetizer last night and I was questioning the purpose of this site/blog. Certainly, the stories can be fun and titillating, but isn’t there a deeper purpose? Does there need to be? I have a strong belief that art of any kind exists to share human experience. Blogging is an art and should [Read More....]
By far one of the most common questions/concerns regarding the lifestyle or swinging activities is the issue of sexually transmitted infections or STIs (formerly known as STDs). First, I must say that there is ABSOLUTELY no way to know for 100% certain that someone is disease free. Even if they have paperwork showing negative test results, they may have picked something up since their last encounter that even they don’t know about. This is our [Read More....]
So a week ago on Sunday, I posted a booty-call looking for some fun with a new guy. As is usually the case with booty calls, it seemed to take forever to get a response. I did eventually get a response from a single guy whose profile sounded great and whose pics seemed perfectly normal enough. Since it was later in the evening, and my husband works early, the single guy and I made plans [Read More....]
It’s one of those nights where I just need to be held and cry. I took a hot bath and cried my eyes out. Now it’s time for me to turn out the lights and let my Hitachi Magic Wand work me into a state of intense release. Then I will fall asleep and hope my husband will hold me when he gets to bed. XOXO
I’ve read articles in women’s articles about the 5 types of friends every woman needs. It is typically suggested that you have a friend whose kids are the same age as yours, one who does the same kind of work you do, one who has known you since childhood, etc. This article is about the 5 types of playmates every swinger girl should have. 1) The wham-bam-thank-you-man. This is the guy who will give [Read More....]
