Welcome to SabrinaSwings!

I am a happily married swinger in suburban Minneapolis. My husband and I have been married for 20+ years and exploring various aspects of consensual non-monogamy since the beginning. Swinging in the Suburbs is the real life blog where I share our experiences. The blog is part true erotic swinging stories, but mostly philosophical discussions of some of the lifestyle's most common questions. How do I get into swinging? How do I talk my spouse into swinging? How do I know if I should swing? Do swingers get jealous? How often do swingers have sex? Where can I find a swinging playmate? Hope you enjoy!

Lifestyle Halloween Joke

 Posted by on 31 October 2009
Oct 312009
 

Here is a little funny that came to me via email: A couple was invited to a swanky costume party.  The Mrs. got a terrible headache and told her husband to go to the party alone. He being a devoted husband protested, but she argued and said she was going to take some aspirin and go to bed and there was no need for his good time being spoiled by not going. So he took [Read More....]

Swinging while my Husband Watches

 Posted by on 29 October 2009
Oct 292009
 

I haven’t yet had the opportunity to write about our “extra-curricular” activities from last weekend.  A couple months ago, my husband expressed his desire to watch me have sex with another guy.  This isn’t the typical way that we swing.  We generally either play together with other couples swapping partners, or we go out separately on solo dates. When we re-entered the swinging world last year, I told hubby I wasn’t really in the mood [Read More....]

Swinging while my Husband Watches
Oct 262009
 

I recently received an email seeking advice on how it works to share your spouse with others.  I will do my best to answer based on our own experience.  First, here’s the question: Hi there!  I am the wifey in a loving beautiful marriage that has gone on for 14 years now.  I want to let go of my boundaries with my husband so we can freely explore the way we want to.  We have [Read More....]

Overcoming Jealousy and Exploring the Lifestyle with an Open Mind

The Very First Blog Post

 Posted by on 25 October 2009
Oct 252009
 

Welcome to our brand new blog! We are a happily married couple living in the suburbs who also happen to be swingers. Yes, that’s right, we have recreational sex with other singles and couples. It’s not exactly an open marriage, but more of a hobby that we share. We first began exploring “the lifestyle” (as it is known to insiders) very early in our marriage. We have had a variety of experiences over the years [Read More....]

The Very First Blog Post